Chatting
Chatting is the spider web in our society. First when I started using the Internet I was a chatting addict. I used to chat for hours and hours. I've meet so many people, added them, blocked them and deleted them too. But after a while I stopped for many reasons and just limited my chatting skills on my msn, which only contained my friend's addresses.
I get many adding requests from strangers and they usually think I am a guy, because I'm using a masculin nickname. Any way, when I used to chat i never chatted to Egyptians. With all my respect but they deal horribly with any Egyptian girl and try to apply their mixed ideas on those girls. Recently I got a request to be added on msn, I accepted it and forgot all about that address. When he saw me online he told me that he liked to get to know me and that he respects friendship (My God....!! guys aren't you bored of that sentence..!!). So I asked him how he got my email and really was so silly at first with him because he got my add from an email he got.
He was very respectable unlike the standard of Egyptian guys I've chatted to. The mixed ideas were very obvious in his words, attitude and questions. He showed a lot of sudden interest in chatting with "me". So i just asked him why? he just told me that this is how he deals with "friends". He also told me that he chatted to other girls on the Internet and that he "knows" everything about them.
Then came the most strange request, he asked for my cell phone number.
I asked him: "Why?"
"just to check on you and call you when i have no access to the Internet."
"dont worry I have my other friends' numbers and I will not bother you with my calls"
I didn't continue talking about that issue and just refused to give him any numbers Ofcourse..!!
He repeated the same request again so I asked him: "If I were your little sister would you still ask me that request...?"
"you named it.... I am sorry.."
"what?"
"you said if you were my sister.... and I would never accept this to my own sister..."
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"then you were treating me just as what? If your requests is impossible for your sister why do you think they are possible for me?"
"My sister is young and can't deal with chatting and besides I can't even allow her to chat" !!!!!!!!
"Listen I can't just go through this hypocrisy any more if you think chatting is wrong, then why are you doing it?"
"I just can't chat with you anymore or even stand you with that dualism in your principals."
"As you wish .... I promise that I'll not bother you anymore."
I was not so shocked but yet couldn't believe that this really existed, and that our society has double measurments for everything according to the "mean" or the "end".
Our youth is torn and is getting so mixed messages from the elders which make them confused and mix the wrong to be right.
For anybody the "RIGHT" and "WRONG" should be the same no matter who this person might be; boy or girl, married or single women and men, white or black, muslim or christian, western or eastern.
We should have a fixed right principals to teach the youth, whatever is wrong remains wrong in any situation under any circumstance.
I get many adding requests from strangers and they usually think I am a guy, because I'm using a masculin nickname. Any way, when I used to chat i never chatted to Egyptians. With all my respect but they deal horribly with any Egyptian girl and try to apply their mixed ideas on those girls. Recently I got a request to be added on msn, I accepted it and forgot all about that address. When he saw me online he told me that he liked to get to know me and that he respects friendship (My God....!! guys aren't you bored of that sentence..!!). So I asked him how he got my email and really was so silly at first with him because he got my add from an email he got.
He was very respectable unlike the standard of Egyptian guys I've chatted to. The mixed ideas were very obvious in his words, attitude and questions. He showed a lot of sudden interest in chatting with "me". So i just asked him why? he just told me that this is how he deals with "friends". He also told me that he chatted to other girls on the Internet and that he "knows" everything about them.
Then came the most strange request, he asked for my cell phone number.
I asked him: "Why?"
"just to check on you and call you when i have no access to the Internet."
"dont worry I have my other friends' numbers and I will not bother you with my calls"
I didn't continue talking about that issue and just refused to give him any numbers Ofcourse..!!
He repeated the same request again so I asked him: "If I were your little sister would you still ask me that request...?"
"you named it.... I am sorry.."
"what?"
"you said if you were my sister.... and I would never accept this to my own sister..."
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"then you were treating me just as what? If your requests is impossible for your sister why do you think they are possible for me?"
"My sister is young and can't deal with chatting and besides I can't even allow her to chat" !!!!!!!!
"Listen I can't just go through this hypocrisy any more if you think chatting is wrong, then why are you doing it?"
"I just can't chat with you anymore or even stand you with that dualism in your principals."
"As you wish .... I promise that I'll not bother you anymore."
I was not so shocked but yet couldn't believe that this really existed, and that our society has double measurments for everything according to the "mean" or the "end".
Our youth is torn and is getting so mixed messages from the elders which make them confused and mix the wrong to be right.
For anybody the "RIGHT" and "WRONG" should be the same no matter who this person might be; boy or girl, married or single women and men, white or black, muslim or christian, western or eastern.
We should have a fixed right principals to teach the youth, whatever is wrong remains wrong in any situation under any circumstance.
posted by Caring Friend | 4:53 PM
4 Comments:
u dont chat with such guys, just kick some butts...
well done blocking him
bgad guyes are physcoooss.ignnore him howa w amsalo w mtz3lsh isa rabena y3wadek bi friend a7san menno 100 marra
u r absolutely right & what happened wz u is always happening. Not only boys do zis wz girls but there r some gurls doing it wz guys.Nas fadia
a7san 7aga zat u dont add any mail u dont know,its easy.
u also talked about duality,am sad 2 find a lot of people who have zis way of thinking... but unfortunately zey r da majority
first of all thanks Haytham for your comment. secondly i actually like scrubs too, but i'm not gonna ask you to get into gf-bf relationship with me. you know why; coz first of all i dont believe in such relations, secondly i surely wouldn't befriend anybody only because he/she likes the same series i do, coz relations has to be more deep than common factors about series or music.
Besides, i think that both girls and guys have to be blamed. Blame girls for letting guys to drag them into some silly conversations and relations that are only a bunch of lies. And the guys for creating that web of lies to set up any girl who ever she is.
I also wanted to stress on the duality of guys in chatting not the lies that they say only. that duality that allow them to chat, lie and creat that whole pinky, imaginary world to attract girls only to fall into the trap. what ever that trap is but that they must have a goal. and for sure they rely on the common rule of "the end justifies the means".
any way thanks alot and hope you'd see my other posts and comment on them ofcourse. have nice day :D
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